Are most mothers negative force to their children?

Most mothers are negative force to their children. They hinder, rather than helping, their children’s survivability. I’m one such mother. 

As a mother,

I don’t notice my child enjoying 23.55 hours a day, but the 5 seconds my baby is sad, I notice. I don’t hear him/her laugh, but hear loud and clear when he/she cries. When things don’t go well the way I plan for my child, I panic. I forget my own heartaches and struggles when I was growing up that made me strong and better survivor. I hurriedly offer my help and promote my child’s vulnerability, instead!