Most mothers are negative force to their children. They
hinder, rather than helping, their children’s survivability. I’m one such mother.
As a mother,
I don’t notice my child enjoying 23.55 hours a day, but the
5 seconds my baby is sad, I notice. I don’t hear him/her laugh, but hear loud
and clear when he/she cries. When things don’t go well the way I plan for my child,
I panic. I forget my own heartaches and struggles when I was growing up that made
me strong and better survivor. I hurriedly offer my help and promote my child’s
vulnerability, instead!
